where I grew up in California not only is “dude” generally non-gender-specific, half of the time it doesn’t even refer to a person at all.
I said it to a faucet today.
A customer once came to me to order a sandwich and said “I want this dude”
Dude is more than a word, it’s an emotion.
dude is a way of life
maybe the real dudes were the friends we made along the way
it feels like an inverted exclamation point, in a way. “dude, look at this” feels a lot like the way “!!!! look at this” could be used here on tumblr
I WILL ALWAYS USE DUDE AS A GENDER NONSPECIFIC PLACEHOLDER WORD
UNLESSUNLESS
UNLES!!!!!!!
you are uncomfortable with being called dude and then i will try my best to not do that because i respect that it can be dysphoria inducing my friend.I am Californian so I apologize in advance for Dude-ing u if u prefer not to be Duded at and will try my best.
I grew up in the nineties. ‘Dude’ can be anything or anyone. Lemme know if this isn’t cool with you.