
THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And for the boys, no not wanting it doesn’t make you gay, less of a man, or anything to that effect, you’re allowed to say no too, and when she says “am I just not hot enoughy for you” that is an attempt to guilt you into sex.
Reblogging for IMPORTANT addition.
You are allowed to only sleep with people you like & WHEN you want to. Don’t let anyone else tell you different, ever.
Reblogging for my teen and high school age followers (because I know y’all are out there!)
Also important: the condom is never too small for a person’s junk. You can fit your whole damn arm in a condom. If said junk is that big, that person shouldn’t be having sex with anyone because they would risk injuring them and possibly themselves. Please inform that partner they should seek medical help immediately. People can get tumors on their junk, and there are other diseases that cause abnormal size which a medical professional will be able to help with.
Also also important: dental dams exist for a reason. no, they are not particularly attractive, but they serve their purpose, which is to protect both the giver and receiver of cunnilingus. unless you’re fluid bonded with your partner and have ensured you’re both free from communicable diseases, it’s just as important to be protected when someone goes down on an individual with a vagina as it is to go down on human with a penis.
Also also also important: If someone says they are allergic to the material of the condom/dental dam or don’t like the way it feels to them, politely decline shenanigans and walk away. Your health is more important than someone else’s momentary pleasure. The fact that this person clearly prioritizes their wants over your needs means you’re better off without them.






