if you hated pink and/or blue as a kid because of the forced implication of rigid gendering of things that you knew you didn’t want to be a part of and as a kid you took it out on the colour but were able to embrace the colour(s) divorced from the bullshit as you grew up and were able to make your own choices about colour and now feel much more free to like pink and/or blue clap your hands
If you don’t drink coffee where do you get that little jump of excitement in your heart from realising coffee is a thing you could go and make and drink RIGHT NOW?
I guess I just have to concede that this is a thing that is missing from my life!
You should cultivate a caffeine addiction there are literally no downsides, apart from all the obvious downsides
i cant Believe that doctor scraggydooper movie from marvel made a enough money to be considered a success & got ok reviews but i haven’t seen a single gifset about it since it came out. not a single character, ship, quip, costume, etc. gifset or even a picspam. And by “i cant believe” i also mean “i am grateful” thanks everyone
Wherever perfectionism is driving, shame is riding shotgun. Perfectionism is not about healthy striving, which you see all the time in successful leaders, it’s not about trying to set goals and being the best we can be, perfectionism is basically a cognitive behavioral process that says if I look perfect, work perfect, and do everything perfectly, I can avoid shame, ridicule, and criticism. It’s a defense mechanism.
“When I interview leaders, artists, coaches, or athletes who are very successful, they never talk about perfectionism as being a vehicle for success. What they talk about is that perfectionism is a huge trigger, one they have to be aware of all the time, because it gets in the way of getting work done.”
honestly if ur an introvert ur probably better off befriending some extroverts bc having a whole squad of introverts is fine at first but eventually you end up never doing anything with them ever especially after you finish school bc ur all fine being loners and low maintenance friends that just tag each other in memes and snapchat each other which is nice but sometimes i wanna leave my house instead of binge watching spongebob squarepants you need balance in ur squad you need to have people who are gonna motivate the squad to be social