i know a lot of us are âarg no more m/f couples!â
but listen
we do need more m/f couples
just not the twig white cis emo boy with basic girl couples
what we NEED:
ones that arenât toxic
the ones that ARE toxic be taken as toxic and not romanized and actually dealt with maturely and shows that those relationships are not healthy
overweight girl of color with most popular boy in school
trans girl with the football player
trans boy of color with girl football player
just break the basic white stick cis girl and the basic white stick cis boy normative!!!
^THIS!!! Like, cool. Iâll take some more m/f couples, but they need to be diverse!!!!!!! I want trans guys and gals, I want people of color, I want healthy relationships!! People need to see themselves represented, and that includes all of those people who are in m/f relationships, but arenât the âwhite cis guy and white cis girlâ that are the current mold. Please and thank you.
Agreed on everything.
Also more m+f and m+m and f+f friends that donât end up in romance and have a healthy friendship, please.
Healthy friendship is all the reason I got back into Elementary (Iâm mid s04 right now and please, donât spoil me for anything).
Itâs about the only show I can think off the top of my head where you have a m/f friendship between two adults who do their best to be good friends as well as trying to do their best to be as emotionally healthy as they can be, and help each other along the way.
Itâs honestly amazing and I am all over that. I wish we could see more healthy relationships in media in general.
If youâre a fan of Moulin Rouge or Great Gatsby, watch The Get Down because it was created by Baz Luhrmann, who also co-wrote and directed both films.Â
If you like musicals, watch The Get Down.Â
If you like 70â˛s aesthetics, New York City, hip hop, or disco, watch The Get Down.Â
If you claim to want or support actual representation for people of color, watch The Get Down, which has a majority black and latinx cast and has, like, two white people who only show up a couple times.Â
If you want LGBT representation, watch The Get Down. If you want to know a little bit about the history of black and latinx drag culture, ballroom culture, and LGBT culture, watch The Get Down. If you want to see interracial relationships, watch The Get Down.Â
If you want to see well written, nuanced women who are complex and who actually make mistakes, watch The Get Down.Â
If you want a glimpse into the way working-class people struggle with white capitalism, how poverty subjugates people of color, and the struggles young people of color from these communities face, watch The Get Down.Â
Watch The Get Down. It hasnât received a tenth of the amount of attention it deserves, and we know that itâs because it has a majority black and latinx cast. Tumblr canât handle such things, but seriously I encourage you to watch it.Â
Shout out to the Wonder Woman movie for having multiple Asian Amazons.Â
We have Mayling Ng, a Chinese-Singaporean actress, playing Orana.
Samantha Jo, a Chinese-Canadian actress, playing Euboea.
Eleanor Matsuura, a Japanese-English actress playing Epione.
Asian women are represented among the Amazons and thatâs awesome.
Iâm sorry but donât you realize that the Amazons were Greek?
âThe Amazons of Themyscira are a race of immortal warrior women that live on the mystically hidden island of Themyscira. They were created by a coterie of Olympian gods over three thousand years ago to serve as their messengers to the world in the name of peace and justice.â (x)
Theyâre a mythical people created from gods. Hereâs a picture of them from the comics:
The Amazons have never all been white, Greek women, and they sure as hell shouldnât be portrayed that way in a film that is supposed to empower ALL women of ALL races. Asian women should not be excluded.
Please donât try to bring in the âhistorical accuracyâ argument for why the Amazons should all be white because they are literally a race of women who have super strength and magical lassos and are created from clay, and you have a hard time accepting some of them as Asian?
I was six the first time I went to disney world. It was also the first time I met my step family in florida. See, my grandfather had three wives in his lifetime, and the third wife was the only one I ever met. She had five kids when they married, and moved to Hawaii from the Phillipines. Now jump forward, my dadâs step siblings have families of their own, including my uncle Jett, who married a native hawaiian woman, and had two beautiful daughters.
Back to that first trip to disney. I was six, my sister was ten, and our smack in the middle of that age difference was my cousin Malia at age eight. She, and her younger sister Bella, both took hula classes, because their mother wanted them to stay close to their roots, despite the distance of having moved to florida. We were all pretty young, but we knew enough that the princesses at disney world were actresses in costume.
âHow cool would it be to play a princess at one of these parks?â I had said after a long day in the magic kingdom. âI wanna do that one day.â
âWho would you play?â Bella had asked.Â
âI donât know. Belle maybe. Sheâs the only one with brown hair other than snow white, and mulan, and I could never play either of them.â
âYeah, but you donât really look like Belle either. Your noses are to different.â Malia had cut in, and I shrugged it off, knowing Itâd never happen anyway.
âWhat about you guys? Who would you play?â I asked them, unaware that there was no answer to that.
âWe donât look like any of them either. There are no princesses from where weâre from.â So we all settled on the sad belief that none of us would ever get to be disney princesses.
Years pass, and I decide that one day I would help write a movie for a princess from either the phillipines, or the polynesian islands, so my cousins could become princesses. Because they held on to that dream. It might have been harder for them to let go of it, because they lived so close to disney.
Now itâs 2014, and Malia has just been hired as a dancer, at the polynesian resort at disney. She started as a swing, and in two years worked her way up to a featured dancer. It helped that she was of polynesian decent.Â
About a year ago it was announced that disney would be releasing a movie featuring their first polynesian princess, and my cousins & I were all excited, but none of us had high hopes. We all figured theyâd make her look more like Rapunzel, the way Anna and Elsa had.Â
Fast forward a few months. They have just released the first look at moana.
I text my cousin as soon as I see it.
âDid you see Moana?â
âNo, why?â I send her the picture above, and a minute later I get a call. âSHE LOOKS LIKE ME! I LOOK LIKE HER!â Malia is screaming into the phone with unabashed enthusiasm. She couldnât believe that a disney princess bore such a resemblance to her.
Yesterday, 11/16/16, my cousin began her new job at disney world, and I couldnât be happier that her dream of ten years had been realized.
This is why representation matters. This is one of many reasons why Moana is so important.Â
Congratulations Malia. I canât wait to come down and say Mahalo